If you’re tired of fighting every single time, try this: buy the no-stir kind. It has hydrogenated oil or palm oil to keep it stable.
But that’s cheating. And it tastes a little fake. Real peanut butter is a commitment.
If you must cheat, scoop the whole jar into a bowl. Microwave it for 10 seconds. Stir once. Done. Shh, I won’t tell.