If you’ve done all this and still aren’t sure, look at the control valve. Most modern softeners have a screen showing days since last regeneration, or error codes. If it says "E1" or "blinking red," Google that code. Or call a plumber.
One last trick: run a load of laundry with soft water. Does your detergent lather like crazy? Or do you need to double the soap? Soft water means you can use half the detergent. If you’re using a ton and still getting sud-free clothes, your softener is a ghost—present but powerless. Don’t ignore it. Your clothes—and your skin—will thank you.
So, is your water softener working? Based on this coffee chat, you’ve got the scoop. Go check those glasses, listen for gurgles, and poke your salt. You’re now the expert in the family. You’re welcome.
