This is the hardest part for most people. When she wants out, your brain screams “CLING TIGHTER!” But relationships are like sand; squeeze too hard, and it all slips through your fingers. Pulling back doesn’t mean playing games or ghosting her. It means giving her the physical and emotional space she’s asking for. Remove the pressure.
Think of it as the Goldilocks Zone of relationship repair—not too hot (desperate texting), not too cold (silent treatment). Just right: one check-in every few days, light and warm. “Hey, hope you’re okay. Thinking of you.” That’s it. Let her miss you. Let her curiosity do some of the heavy lifting.
